There is great help available and advice and support.....either online or you could ask your childs health visitor or school nurse for advice and support.

Really to expect you to sleep in the childs bed is not on......the child should be reassured by you both and put back to bed in their own bed.......ok there may be tears etc but persistance and reassurance will help with that.

Putting the child in bed with her......may ease the problem in the short term but long term it is just creating a problem that needs to be faced and addressed........good luck x