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Originally Posted by Broncos38
I just got a job offer. But its more than I'm making now. Its just she hates being at home. She is all stressed out. Can't drive because of epilepsy. Has to be cleared after 8 months. I just can't dump her cause of this situation. The new job I got is going to be further away. Her parents have no space. She's getting tired of the same routine all the time. I don't want her getting sick cause of isolation. Also her mother is against us living together but how can we have a better without the drama from everything. We are over 30.
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Can you clarify what it is the problem is here? I get you have a better job offer making more money.
What I don't understand is the rest of it. Your GF hates being at home, and how does that relate to this new job offer? Are you moving?
Who can't drive because of epilepsy?
What needs to be cleared after 8 months?
Please undesrtand I'm only trying to figure out what you're saying so I can answer better. I hate assuming i understand something and totally saying something wrong.
About the only thing I can say with what I understand is that you're over 30 yrs old and far from having to be under her mother's thumb. Make your own decisions and if your fiance can't make the decision for you instead of her mother you need to do what's best for you first.