hey. no... i dont think i can ring him. or email him either. 'cause i think he was reluctant to give me his email address initially. boundary issue. we have never talked about what i am to do in a crisis (not htat i'm in one) but we have never talked about that. i guess i have his number in public and private practice. i'd get his secretatries though. would need to leave a message no doubt.

i don't think i'd use his email address...

firstly... there is the point that his wife might be reading because it is his personal address. i don't like the thought of that. i have no idea what she does. i have no idea whether she thinks about crazy people who contact her husband. he said he hasn't emailed clients before. i guess i'm really very concerned about respecting boundaries. he seemed reluctant to give me his address... then he did... i don't want to let him down / breech the boundaries.

i guess the motto is 'don't send me anything you wouldn't be happy about other people reading'. and so... i wouldn't. i wouldn't. i wont sent him anything. except acknowledgement of rescheduling (if he choose to do that). but... he didn't. sorry need to sleep now. sorry.