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Arwen_78 · Nov 29, 2013, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by IheartHendrix

I agree with Miswimmy1 as well. I'm not currently treating my ADD, but I remember when I was diagnosed and put on the proper meds. It was so clear! Now, without meds, I'm scatterbrained and cannot just focus on ONE thing. I try, but.... you know how it goes.
Arwen - it's hard to find a close friend like that. I know what you mean. I just moved to a new state and have made some friends, but I know that I'm a little too intense for most of the friends I've made. Like I have this emotional excitability (or an overflow of energy .. not physically.. but mentally) and people can feel that and are either overwhelmed by it or just think I'm weird. I have a guy friend here that I met through my meditation group and he immediately commented on it. Guys are like that. They are just easier for me to be friends with. I guess because I'm not into pointless drama. I haven't met many girls my age that are chill.

Oh, god yeah! Guys are just mellow and easy to be around compared to most women that I met. I use to club, still do abit, but the girls who are out to impress scare the -blank-out of me. I don't think I'm ugly or anything it's just how they can be. When I'm out just for a drink and I end up talking with the guy next to me or a group of guys at the bar just because and the women within the group get uncomfortable. It's stupid really!

If I was hitting on guys I'm not the type to hit on a guy who is with someone already. Plus, I'm normally not dressed up or on the look out as I've already have a boyfriend. I'm just comfortable talking normally with guys because it's not a big deal.