Stepgrandparents, need to make things equal and fair, for the sake of the kids, period.
I'd be skittish of attending to, alone, any child that accused me, of hitting them. for that, I wouldn't chance alone with him.
I can appreciate, the stress of minding two kids, not being able to, does not make you, a bad mother.
You don't have more than your son, other than visitation days. You aren't use to having two. You didn't give birth to two. They are close in age. He comes with baggage.
Sounds like a tough, position, to be in.
As a single mum, I don't entirely buy into the concept of a boy needing a man around, to grow into being a man. If there are positive roles models around, he'll be fine. Boys need things, but an unhealthy home life, isn't one of them.


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