Thread: Do you plan SI
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Old Nov 29, 2013, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by tealBumblebee View Post
Typically I plan it as well, or at the least I know its a high possibility that I'll engage in it.

I truly believe I sh out of anxiety/frustration (T finds this "interesting") so if I'm highly stressed out, I think "I can sh and it'll make me feel better" and i'll know that at some point at home i need to take a few minutes out to myself so that I can do it. I'll even go as far as to make sure the kids (my little cousins) are fed, my mom doesn't need me for anything and everyone's settled and content so that I won't be disturbed.
That's interesting that you get everyone settled first. I live alone, but have a dog. I don't know how, but she knows what cabinet I keep supplies in, and when I open it she freaks out. This should be enough to stop me you'd think. But now I just have to make sure she is fed, and put outside for awhile so I can get the release I need without having her around trying to stop me.
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