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Originally Posted by IGotThis
When I say goodnight to people I care about, I say "I love you" because I want them to know how much they really matter to me, how important they are, how much I care, how much I love them.... So then when I just get "love you too" in return, my heart breaks, because I'm always hoping and wanting that intense love in return... I know it sounds dumb, that one letter couldn't change the meaning so drastically, but for me, it really does... Does anyone else have this issue at all?
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I wouldn't let it break your heart.. No need. We all have different bits of coloured cellophane over our eyes and our perceptions vary.
I had a boyfriend who only said "love you" or at times "ditto". But I knew he loved me, I understand that by adding the "I" it personalises it, but I knew he loved me all the same.
I also had an ex who added "I love you" onto everything, I mean everything.. and he turned out to not really love me at all. So try not to read too much into it. (hahaha another time where I can take my own advice).. I know I read into stuff like that all the time, I would put an xo and I would get only an x back...I would even go as far as back through all the messages and count how many x's I have been given over the course of a few days.. hmmm.. crazy!..It can be really frustrating, I know.
