Isn't it a bit late now? I know there was also an instance that he said something that hurt my feelings (without meaning to, I'm just really sensitive about certain things) and it's been bothering me since. It led to "punishment" self-harm (again, I'm not blaming him or saying it's fault, as it isn't, just stating how things are). I can't talk about it now.

And about this, it's been more than a week since I've talked to him, it just seems unfair to come out of the blue with such a strong statement. I mean, I will have to interact with him again on some level, I really don't want this to turn into a fight.

Besides, he has had to sacrifice what he wants already, so in a way, this kind of seems fair.