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Originally Posted by PeachCream22
Anyway, he sent me lots of texts since I blocked him on fb, saying things like: "Okay, I think you desperately want me out of your life, you just keep on ignoring me, and I find this extremely childish. I tried to be a good friend, and you couldn't work this out together. Take care, and if we ever see each other again maybe we'll be friends, cause you're not strong enough to handle this, all I ever wanted was your friendship, and you pushed everything I gave you away, I'm done here, goodbye"
I felt like laying it all on the table again, but then, he'd make me feel guilty all over again like what he did for a whole year.
...I've had enough. How am I supposed to say to all those texts? I never responded to any of his texts. Sounds like he won't be contacting me anymore.
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Ignoring him, is not childish. [name-calling] 'you couldn't work this out together[blaming] 'you're not strong enough to'...[put-down, criticism]
You mentioned he'd make you feel 'guilty' all over again. For sure, that's the method to his madness. Insulting you, and blaming you, are a Guilt Trip, it's manipulative. He's got a new girlfriend!! You aren't giving him, what he wants, and in an immature manner, he's trying to get you to give into his demands, by belittling you, this way.