It's not about sex and sexual attraction; it's more an anxiety/social thing. If you are attracted to porn then you are attracted to women only you have a problem because the porn is not real and getting in the habit of getting off that way is a real habit so quitting porn won't change the habit itself, the habit is an "action". Only getting out there and socializing/getting to know and "work with" women can change the whole scenario. It's not the porn that is the problem, it is how you interact (or not) with other people. Sounds like you are stuck in your head. I'd get a therapist and work to figure out how to get "out" into the real world and interact with other real people.