My family is so dysfunctional. My spouse and I can't stop fighting with our 20 yr old son. We can't communicate with him at all without fighting. Even I'm guilty. I get so moody and irritable being in the same room as my son. This is so sad. I feel terrible that I hurt him so with my words.

We want him out and working, but yet our fighting and words just drive him back into his room.

Sometimes I feel like there's so much negative energy in this house. My husband gets moody just walking in the front door.

We even fight about him when we attempt date night and trips out of the house.