Good luck with your husband EJ711! I hope things turn out well for you. We lived in a very similar place when I was little, but my mom whipped out the dynamite everyday for nearly 13 years to finally get my dad to move out of that place, only to have him get a job transfer 20 miles away from where we originally were. My mom was devastated, but the job transfer was too good to pass. That's why I need to find a job, ANY job right now, just to earn some money, so we can go somewhere else.