This is the best thing anyone can say to you indigo. Please do be kind to yourself. Im a guy (obviously, with a username like Beau_Duc, which is Old French for 'Fair Duke' ) but due to health reasons, and its a long, long & complex story, I have dealt with weight problems myself and know exactly how cruel people can be and how difficult the dating scene can be too. Fortunately for me, back before my health failed I met a wonderful beautiful lady and we got married and are living happily ever after. The main thing that makes us work is we have both had big ups and downs in life, both been slim and fat, both had health and family problems etc etc. My point is, there is guys out there who are nice and have a good enough brain on em to not be so shallow as to disregard you because of weight. There is a nice guy out there for you, you just havent met him yet. You're only 27, thats very young Im 36 but feel like Im 98, lol. Life has kicked my butt so bad I feel ancient! I hope I can be encouraging for you here and TRY to speak up for the good guys out there. They exist and one of em would be happy to meet you, just dont give up on all us fellers. Rather, don't let those shallow, mean, arrogant dudes spoil your will to find a good guy.

Thanks for sharing, see you around the place