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Originally Posted by lido78
Interesting that you should mention this...Today, I actually re-joined the dating site where I met my ex-boyfriend thinking that it might help me move on. And found that he'd re-joined as well. Funny, he told me the reason he wanted to break up is that he wants to move back home and doesn't want to be in a committed relationship any more since a move for him would be back overseas....yet, his profile includes wanting a long-term relationship....and he used photos that I took of him on his profile. Is it wrong to think this is pretty much an asshole move?
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No its not necessarily wrong... Or right, depending on how you look at, it is both of those things, he is just dishonest. I think he was just trying not to hurt your feelings. Your best bet is to try to forget about him. Best of luck to you in your quest for a meaningful relationship. I think your best bet is not to try to end the loneliness, but find somebody who's honest and compatible. If this happened to me, I would call the person every insult in the world, but from an objective point of view, I can see how he was just trying not to be so hurtful, through his dishonesty. Almost in the way some people tell white lies.
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