Petra5ed, Karrebear and others, the other good therapist I once saw thought there was enough boundary violation and bad treatment there for me to report her. I didn't though. But I will talk with nice T again about all this when I can get hold of her to ask for an appointment. The problem about reporting it would be it would hang over me for ever. In a way I'd rather have a face to face tell it how it is session with her - in a controlled, compassionate manner (on my part anyway!!) But I will definitely get some advice. Thank you.