Relationships and the Importance of Reciprocity

I didn't find the list, yet, from archives on this one, which is where I am sure, I found it, at this point, I need to delve into my own journals, to find specifically the 'big needs list', but here are a couple more sites, that discuss 'needs', where relationships are concerned, (crossing my fingers, I am not violating TOS, of PC, and if I am, mods please just remove and forgive me, in the spirit of this thread)

The Most Important Emotional Needs

(this one, has almost all the 'big needs' listed, as I was browsing..)

List of Relationship Needs | True Potential Blog