Thanks everyone. A major source of frustration is his inability to find and keep a job. He was working for the last few months and things seemed to be improving. Then his psych issues inflate and he is constantly home. Things just go downhill from there.

He won't see the counselor or get help. My husband, his father, told him he goes back to counseling or he'll be homeless. We just can't live with the chaos anymore. I'm BP and it's making my symptoms flare up.

We have lost control of the situation.