Yes, ignore guilt trips. Is your fiancé, ok, about her mother treating her, like a teenage girl(or younger)? What does your fiancé, feel about all this? Would your fiancé, allow you, two, to be split up, because her Mom says to?

Even, after married, what role, will your future mother in-law, play? Will your fiancé, still look for approval, or permission, to make adult decisions?

You are engaged. At this point, it makes financial sense, to save on wear and tear on your vehicle. It makes, logistical sense, to get her acclimated, to more local doctors, if you don't plan to drive her, to the ones, she has. Makes sense, for adjustment to a new community. It makes sense. It's just, for some inane reason, you are both seemingly answering to someone elses demands.
Does, that concern you, in marriage, will it change??

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