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Dec 01, 2013, 06:59 PM
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Member Since: Sep 2013
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Yes, ignore guilt trips. Is your fiancé, ok, about her mother treating her, like a teenage girl(or younger)? What does your fiancé, feel about all this? Would your fiancé, allow you, two, to be split up, because her Mom says to?
Even, after married, what role, will your future mother in-law, play? Will your fiancé, still look for approval, or permission, to make adult decisions?
You are engaged. At this point, it makes financial sense, to save on wear and tear on your vehicle. It makes, logistical sense, to get her acclimated, to more local doctors, if you don't plan to drive her, to the ones, she has. Makes sense, for adjustment to a new community. It makes sense. It's just, for some inane reason, you are both seemingly answering to someone elses demands.
Does, that concern you, in marriage, will it change??
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No, my fiancee doesn't like being treated like a child. She CERTAINLY WON'T let us get split up because of her mother. She is DESPERATE to get out of the house and loves being with me NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. She has been actually HELPING to look for the right apartment she is so desperate. She WANTS OUT!! She has been looking to other resources to help back her up(i.e. Epilepsy Foundation, her now former nurse practitioner). She knows things aren't right, and really all she wanted was to not leave any unresolved issues at home. That was the reason she sought the help of a therapist to begin with. She was hoping it would help mend fences between her and her mother first. She wasn't TRYING to seek approval really. Just an easier way to talk to her mother.
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