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Originally Posted by lido78
Lordy, I hope it doesn't take me over a year to get beyond this...but, I'm VERY relieved that still being so sad/hurt/angry at this point is not abnormal.
. Just seems dumb/incredibly immature to me...I have no respect left and now doubt the entire relationship because of this...makes me feel as if I wasted years of my life and was just a big fool to ever believe/trust him.
A relationship doesn't always have to end badly....What I'd hoped for was to one day be able to look back on things just simply realize we weren't meant to be together. Now I regret ever having met him. Maybe one day I'll feel more generous and just feel sorry for him.
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I've been dumped via email, once, during early years of email. Seems to be a 'trend', these days. It's good, you are at the angry at him phase.
If he is conflict avoidant,, then good riddance!!
A year off, isn't a bad approach, then again, depends on what comes your way, once you've released this one from your system.
I, prefer, the wait approach, some prefer jumping back into, the fray. I chose, waiting, after an abusive marriage, because, there was more than the usual healing work and therapy, to be done.
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