I just meant the elements that were mentioned all seemed too good to be true…I mean, that would be the ideal, but the chances of having a relationship where a lot of those elements were part of it, doesn't sound possible to me. I just don't see the majority of guys going to that much trouble for sex. Or at least not without being bitter about it.

And as for the guy, he's someone who's lucky enough to be on his way to getting a job in the career field he actually wants to be in so obviously his career is the most important. So I don't hold it against him for not being able to find a large enough window of time for me. I mean, this conference is once a year, and I'll be here and single all year.

I guess I just made the mistake of thinking that the rehearsals weren't as important to attend, but he could possibly pick up rehearsal techniques and I should have known that. I feel like I was just being selfish thinking he could spare a couple of hours or so from the conference.