I have had 8 T's so far. All have asked to see my S/H, and I have always allowed it (because it was on my arms). My new T has seen both my old scars and pictures of the most recent S/H on my thigh. I am no longer embarrassed by it, though I don't "show off" my scars. My only fear with a T seeing it is if she will pass out or be disgusted by it, but I figure if they ask then they should be prepared.