Simon, I always appreciated your sensitivity & warmth. I remember one thread from a guy who was 30 or something & hadn't had sex. You wrote the most beautiful post--I didn' t think a man could feel the emotional context of sex so well. Anyway, right then & there I decided you were a special person & I haven't found anything to the contrary.

Whatever you decide to do, I know you will be taking care of yourself as you see fit.

But if you go away, I will miss those wonderful, insightful posts. You certainly weren't "invisible" to me.--Suzy