Prior to being diagnosed and medicated apparently I was alot of fun and pretty wild ..... One day my husband said " I wish you were the "ole Chris" sometimes .. you were a blast ... Yes I broke into many pieces that day and did wind up in a psych ward 2 weeks later suicidal. Point being .. If she is your friend she is your friend whether you like her better up or down .. words can and do hurt alot . It took months in therapy for me to get over what my husband said .

In general people need to take more time when choosing words with a friend spouse or love .. words can and do hurt .. Kindness isnt so hard to offer.