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Originally Posted by oceanwater7
I have an issue that I've dealt with my whole life. I was born a woman but I don't feel quite feminine enough. When I was a kid I dressed in jerseys and overalls. I didn't put on makeup till my late high school years. I don't like wearing dresses or skirts I feel it would draw unwanted attention. I don't like my hair down either so I keep it up in a ponytail all the time cause it feels more comfortable. I love wearing makeup and usually don't go out without it, but no matter what I can't shake off this feeling like I look a guy and I don't like it. I feel manly around more feminine women and I get jealous. I'm straight and I don't really want to be a guy so I don't know. Maybe it runs in my family cause my brother likes to wear skirts and says he doesn't identify with either gender. I think me and him should have been born the opposite sex sometimes perhaps we'd feel more normal.
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First of all, how old are you?
If you're talking about your appearance, then it is just a self-conscious thing. Has any acknowledge your appearance?
Try wearing skirts sometimes, it can make you feel more womanly because you have to sit, walk, and do other things that the skirt forces you to do.
Try wearing your hair down sometimes (Although I find girls that reveal their neck more sexy). It can help you act more womanly because you'd have to flick your hair back. Or you can play with it. Or when you see a hot guy, you start preening (fixing your hair or brushing it with your hands).
If I want my woman to be more womanly, I'd do things to make her feel more womanly. Try to find a guy that is more aggressive, and you submitting to his aggression can help you feel less powerful.