I agree that he should not have pushed her, but I just find it sooooo difficult to tell her to dump the jerk when she is pregnant. But you know what, she really should dump the jerk and look for someone who will treat her the way she deserves to be treated, with love and respect, mental illness or no mental illness. Middie, my heart goes out to you, it really does. This must be so difficult, but I know from your posts that you are intelligent and mature, and will be able to handle all of this just fine alone. Get that child support though, that is the very least he should do. Hang in there and keep us posted.