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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
I've been reading the links and I understand relationships better, I think. But those are more geared towards maintaining a relationship, not starting one…I guess I don't get how I'm not able to hold a guy's attention for very long. I don't know what I'm doing wrong unless it's because I'm too honest and not just omitting everything that may even be the least bit negative from the conversations.
And I suppose I would be amazed at the lengths men will go through for love as it seems that any sort of inconvenience will turn them off. I mean, I've never even gotten to the "second date". They all realize how inconvenient or clueless I am on the first.
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There are men that would truly go to great lengths for the one they want and love. This is true but not necessarily every guy and even those that may go to great lengths for the right one, may not be the right one for you yet.
My suggestion would be the most difficult for you to do but it works. Stop looking outward for a man at all. work on you, be independent and content with what you have. It's hard but content, happy singles are very attractive as opposed to those of us running around looking for the right guy/girl
Hope this helps
~S4