It's like they say "be careful what you wish for" or the grass is always greener on the other side. Right? But, they also say we're afraid of change and what we don't know. I think making small steps toward what you want is better than none.

I find that having something to look forward to helps. Even if they are small things then slowly branch out. "I'm excited that I got a gift card to buy new shoes." That's a pretty small thing, but it's something to look forward to. Then, you know, as time goes you can try for bigger things. Just an idea.