I trust my T completely and entirely. There is nothing I can't talk about with T. There are topics I've not yet been comfortable bringing up, but that's not because of T, that's because of my fear of bringing up certain topics because I worry that if I bring them up, that means they're actually real.
It did take me a while, a good year, before I fully trusted T. I tested T tons! Pushing till I thought T would snap and dump me, being *****y or snotty and watching Ts reaction, being demanding and needy to see how T would handle me. T passed every test with flying colors - remaining calm, patient, and consistent. Now, T is my rock, the only person I have who I fully and completely trust with all of me. And T hasn't let me down yet in that department - ever patient, calm, and consistent (even when T gets frustrated with me!)
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