I am NOT trying to please her. I just don't want things to end on a bad note, or have a rift between us for the rest of our lives here on earth really.
I personally, have always dreamed of a nice beautiful Catholic wedding at the church I grew up in, I really DO WANT to move into an apartment with my fiancee ASAP, but the ONLY thing is, since I live with my parents and 2 older brothers, I can't exactly move out quietly. My 36 year-old older brother is somewhat of a blabbermouth, we'd have to get him to either go out with his girlfriend or go to her dad's apartment, unless he's working that day. I'd also have to tell my dad so he's not left in the dark.