Hello all,

new here but i've read some of the posts on here and i think you all could help me here.....

long story short, met this girl, for 6 months been plying cat and mouse game about liking each other until 12:40 am on new years and have been seeing a lot of each other since.

a day later she asks me if I love her and my emotional dam broke and i tell her everything that i always wanted to tell her, didnt get the same response back, said that she loved me too

now to the heart of the issue, before new years i was looking to move to california where my best friend had been telling me to every since i got out of the military

where i live careerwise im at a standstill as far as getting anywhere here. She finished her masters but is not having any success landing a decent job, im 26 she is 25, we are alike in so many ways it scary but relationship wise she is reserved and its something im not used to but im getting there

earlier on tonight she was thinking about going back to school to get her doctorate, that would mean 4 yrs back there, so both us said to each other in all the ways you can say it to the point of babbling on about being in a lond distance relationship pros and cons of it

so what do i do, what could i say ?

sorry for the long post

Thanks for listening