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Originally Posted by Bill3
What do you see as the pros and cons of this idea?
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Pros: I will feel less guilty if he has someone around him to help (I don't want to leave him hanging).
Cons: He'll get more aggravated for involving his friends.
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Originally Posted by River11
NO!! You're cheating yourself if you keep lying to your heart that this is love. You, as all of us do, deserve true love with someone who truly loves you.
And love wants the best, believes the best, supports and nourishes, walks alongside - does not control or belittle or judge ...
It's understandable that you have fears, but you don't have to let them control you or trap you either. Be true to yourself in spite of your fears. Don't be tricked by them or by a cowardly person's threats. You are worthy of being true to yourself.
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Sadly, I am just worried that what he says is true. There are so many what-if's... What if the person I end up with is worse? What if I am missing on a good life by leaving him? He knows me and my past and maybe in future he maybe good? What if in an arranged marriage, the guy hates me even more for my past
