I also have big issues with trust. I've had my T for a little over a year, but trust her more than any other I can think of. I feel like we can talk about everything (except sex) , which I know is my issue and have never had a T that I discussed it with. I think that in my head, when I first began seeing her, I sort of tested her to see what she would say or do before I felt safe with her. She passed all my little tests and I really do trust her a lot!