I think I agree with Frayed....This has been going on for some time now (months you said), so maybe she wants to know how you feel...if you're thinking what she is thinking, that she wants to be more than friends? Does she live anywhere near you? Have you two ever talked about meeting? IDK, for me, after this much flirting I would want to meet. Yes, I would probably have anxiety about it, but I'd still be moving towards that end. Is that your ultimate goal..to meet IRL?