What a great attitude you have! And good to hear that you are working your way through this. Family relationships are the most challenging ones we have.

I am not proud of this but I cut my father out of my life for a time when I was younger for reasons that seemed warranted at the time. We patched things up and I am so glad we did because he died three years ago. I even had an 80th birthday celebration for him at his church a year before he died. He was so happy and proud that day!

What I learned from this experience was that cutting someone off did not work for me ... it just made ME feel bad. I realize your daughter is inappropriate with you and it seems like a heavy cross to bear but you don't have to do it alone ... you have a good psych doc and friends on this board to commune with. Hugs to you.