Thanks so much Little Lulu! I've already developed a positive strategy for dealing with her, should the need arise. If she says hurtful things, I'll just sweetly tell her what a nice thing to say, and thank her. Maybe that tact will get her to examine her motives a bit. At least it gives me a way to eliminate my own hurt and stress! Just remembering that I am the one in charge of my emotions,,
Hugs back