Broncos, how about posting your answers on the same thread you started earlier? It's really hard to keep track of things when you start a new thread each time.
Do you know how to do that? Just go down to the last post and click on the "reply" and type your message. Then click on the "submit reply" at the bottom of the box.
I don't quite understand what you are saying about the therapy. Is it helping? I have not doubt that it is stressful for your fiancee. She is being tugged on one side by her mother and on the other side by her mom.