Thorn you have put yourself into these situations. He can act up and you probably are the one who feels crazy after an argument. How long have you been together? Questions to me depend on what they're about. If you are questioning my role or ways or anything to do with me it becomes a different way of speaking back. If it's something other than me than I never had a problem as I probably didn't care to really listen or that I was interested in the subject. Like most I just adapt better or worse(much higher or lower scale).