She should be so lucky to have you around...my mom just moved 800 miles away and I'd give anything to have her back. Your daughter needs to know what it feels like to NOT have you so easily accessible...maybe then she'll realize her behaviour and how its affecting your relationship with her. I understand the grandchildren come into play and you dont want to miss out on them, but sometimes you must put your needs before hers, since she's not even considering how you fee...for 25 years! Is this the example she wants to set for her children? I'm sad for you... ((hugs)) (sorry i'm new here..just wanted to let you know that )