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Originally Posted by AlexRya
She has had 13 partners, she has had a threesome with another female and another with two males, a partner more than 10 years older than her, among other things. It wasn't just the acts themselves but also how casually she approached those situations. "It just kind of happened" is usually the overarching justification. The promiscuity of it all is perplexing, but I don't want to be this judgmental.
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If I were you I would be most concerned if she had a pattern of cheating in relationships. If these were all flings when she was single that's one thing. I'm not sure how old she is, but depending on her age 13 partners could be a lot or just average. For a lot of Gen Y and younger women these days, sleeping with a guy when they want to the way they want to is no big deal. I have a few friends who admitted to having threesomes, personally I would never do it, but I don't think it's as bad as flashing your boobs in public to a thousand guys at mardi gras. I haven't had this exact experience, but then again I'm a woman so I wouldn't. My advice though is to trust your gut. After things settle down you will either worry all the time and think she's slutting it up, or you won't... and for me my gut has always been right.