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I think you should not send any letter, do not have any further contact with your ex-T and take this letter to your new T and work on what you feel and to help you work through this.
Sending this letter is going to make thing worse in the long run when you do not get the response you expect.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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