The one sympton that was not listed is the fear of not being believed when things finally come to the open ... Specilly when your husband is charming, good looking and "nice".
How dare you acuse him of such thing?!!!!

I guess it doesn't matter he used to physically fight with his mom when he was a teenager. Oh! It also wouldn't matter that his own mom told me her only fear was that he would be abusive of his wife.

gab