[quote=healingme4me;3439558]It's intrusive because this is your fiancé's therapy, not her mothers. If she wants to invite, her mom, in for a session, that's between your fiancé and her therapist.

This, is why I feel, it could take your fiancé a long time, to overcome the enmeshment with her mother. If you, are asking, 'why' it's intrusive, then I am not sure, what can be done.

But it's misunderstanding my mom called the therapist not my fiancee's mom.