I wear skirts and dresses and never wear makeup, and feel perfectly feminine.

I have quoted a portion of your post and responded to it to illustrate that your list of attributes of femininity such as makeup and clothing is perfectly arbitrary.

Still, as a poster above me, I recommend that you try wearing skirts. My favorite skirts are floor length. It is your hypothesis that wearing skirts will draw unwanted attention. Test it! Maybe there won't be more attention. Maybe thete will be but you will like the attention.

What kind of body type is yours? Clothing choices should take it into account.