God looking at the coping strategies are easier. It is actually trying to live them out that is the hard part.
There are so many days that I still feel like a victim and some like a survivor. It is funny though because in all of the work I do with sexual assault I always refer to the woman as a survivor. It is only with myself that I think differently.
So hard sometimes.

Jessica

<font color=blue> You are in this snowglobe. It is encovered in glass and secure. But one day someone comes and shakes the globe and the pieces go flying everywhere. Now they will eventually settle but they won't be the way they were before and they can never be that way again. </font color=blue>