I am in my fourth marriage. I have now a wonderful loving husband. Not all men are bad. Neither are all women. You just have to keep looking to find one that fits what you want. I wish I had not been married 4 times but I am very lucky I kept trying.
The first abused me. So did the second. Third was an alcoholic/ He was also my best friend. I miss him still but he died 4 yrs ago.
The one I have now is a wonderful loving man. I couldn't ask for more./
would I do it again? in a heartbeat. try not to judge all or most men by the bad ones. there are wonderful men out there.
Also something to think about here. if you don't date again you might lose the one that was meant just for you!!