Hello, Welcome to the forums i was excited reading your post because i married a man who's family is similair to your boyfriends
Truth be told his mother will never let go until you tell her to
If he couldnt stand up for and love and respect you inspite of his mother's antics, then it is best for him to remain suckin mommies titties until his teeth falls out. In my husbands case while he was away at college he found me, he is 30 yrsold and i am his first girlfriend ( his first everything) his mother expected him to come home after his years of schooling even after he recieved his PHD, but we fell in love and to her surprise and anger we wanted to get married
My husband was so babied that we would never have married because of his mother. The fact that we live in different states is why we are together. He got away from her and thats what the solution would have been for your beloved. If he comes back to you... give him another chance... these type of men need to know that its ok to make you the ##1 top gun woman in there life.
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