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Dec 05, 2013, 10:21 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by likelife
....And you make a good point too that there is a difference between wanting to be heard and wanting to say these things. I think I get caught up in wanting both of these things! But I get that I can't necessarily have both...
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I thnk you may not be able to have both right away. And it was a good thing to point out, and for you to consider, so that you don't get further triggered. On the other hand, sometimes (but not always) it is healing to say what you have to say. YOu never know when something you say, or she says, will sink in days, weeks, months, years later.
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