Just ask if she has gotten std tested. If she hasn't, encourage her to and do it yourself to show support. This is for both of your safety.
After that focus on the present. Look into mindfulness to help you stay in the present. Help her stay in the present. She trusted you enough to tell you but you can't change what happened. Its not good to worry about things that you can't change. Just breeds distrust.
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