To assuage myself I try to remember that, like myself, others if not everyone, has challenges of some sort in their lives. However, you should not just take it. I have probably pushed people away when I did not mean to. However, I understand that an apology and acknowledgement of my jerky antics goes a long way.

Perhaps something in her mind has triggered this behavior, perhaps she will come around and realize she is being hurtful and what I like to call wrong, but that is inflammatory and in a situation like this I refrain from using such accusatory terms. It does not foster reconciliation.